Perhaps the most depressing part about a psychiatrist's office is that it has become a medical McDonald's serving medication. The time constraints compounded by the medical profession's inherent inability to deal with social problems makes this one of the saddest places to visit. Psychiatry has essentially reduced human suffering to the brain because it is much easier to throw medication at the brain than it is to deal with the complexity of people's lives. The most insidious part of all of this is that patients and physicians alike come to believe in the power of medication.
I try not to be so pessimistic about this but this is what psychiatry has become. You can speak of genetic predispositions, chemical imbalances, or even the glory of psycho- and behavior cognitive therapy but in the end, you are still dealing with a spiritual creature. Psychiatry categorizes disorders with nice lists. Meet 5 of 8 of these conditions for 6 months and you have this episode or that personality disorder. People were never meant to be viewed in this manner. But, psychiatry protests and fights back. It tries to defend its validity with more diagnostic criteria, more brain studies, and more drug trials that show "progress." It kicks and screams while its progeny stare back with their flat, constricted, ghost-like affect.
Thursday, July 22, 2010
Monday, July 5, 2010
"home"
I went back up to Chicago this past weekend to spend time with other people's families. One of my high school buddies has to move back to the burbs this weekend to take care of his sick mother. Ironically, his dad and two older brothers are all doctors/doctors in training but for various reasons are unable to be home that weekend. So, my friend, the high school English teacher, was ironically the only one that was able to make it home to fulfill his filial duties. I am thankful that I don't need much to be amused and so I have no problem catching up over running errands for his mom, ping-pong wars, and even the obligatory basement poker night with high school acquaintances. In addition to playing many games of rummy with his mom to help keep her mind off her illness, we even have time to scurry downtown to play some ball with his city friends, which turns out to be an excellent opportunity to remind myself of the extent of my physical decline. Yes, it is 90+ and humid but even I can't blame that for the tightness I feel in my hamstrings.
The next stop this weekend was at my college roommate's parent's house in Naperville, IL. The reason why I am here instead of his place in the city is another family matter--his seven year old cousin from India needs baby-sitting. I am able to spend time not only with my college buddy but also get to see his younger brother and girlfriend who are here for the summer. Not that my friend anticipates having children any time soon, but watching him and his girlfriend take turns reprimanding, teaching, and playing with him gives me that eerie feeling of how fast time has flown by--and as if I didn't need any more reminders, my college buddy's younger brother is going to college next year.
Third stop takes me about 15 minutes south to my another friend's parent's place to meet more college-bound siblings and another girlfriend/fiance. Dave's family has always been pretty fun to hang out with, but at this point of the weekend, this theme of family (and the absence of my own) is starting to gnaw at me. It's hard to precisely define the exact feeling, but even if I am the type that is always trying to not get boxed into a specific category or group, growing up these last couple years has precipitated a sense of isolation that has caused me to yearn for familiarity and withdraw from initial discomfort of new experiences.
Last stop is to see my nephew and niece. I find myself almost envying their ability to play all day with few worries. Watching them grow up gives me the ultimate sense that time passes quickly My nephew is beginning to cry when it's time for people to leave. He hugs my leg repeatedly and I have to stop my own tears as I turn to leave to drive back to Peoria. I hate to say it but I'm not enthralled about third year--perhaps this is why weekends like this one are so bittersweet.
The next stop this weekend was at my college roommate's parent's house in Naperville, IL. The reason why I am here instead of his place in the city is another family matter--his seven year old cousin from India needs baby-sitting. I am able to spend time not only with my college buddy but also get to see his younger brother and girlfriend who are here for the summer. Not that my friend anticipates having children any time soon, but watching him and his girlfriend take turns reprimanding, teaching, and playing with him gives me that eerie feeling of how fast time has flown by--and as if I didn't need any more reminders, my college buddy's younger brother is going to college next year.
Third stop takes me about 15 minutes south to my another friend's parent's place to meet more college-bound siblings and another girlfriend/fiance. Dave's family has always been pretty fun to hang out with, but at this point of the weekend, this theme of family (and the absence of my own) is starting to gnaw at me. It's hard to precisely define the exact feeling, but even if I am the type that is always trying to not get boxed into a specific category or group, growing up these last couple years has precipitated a sense of isolation that has caused me to yearn for familiarity and withdraw from initial discomfort of new experiences.
Last stop is to see my nephew and niece. I find myself almost envying their ability to play all day with few worries. Watching them grow up gives me the ultimate sense that time passes quickly My nephew is beginning to cry when it's time for people to leave. He hugs my leg repeatedly and I have to stop my own tears as I turn to leave to drive back to Peoria. I hate to say it but I'm not enthralled about third year--perhaps this is why weekends like this one are so bittersweet.
Monday, June 28, 2010
A book opens itself as much as it is read
As a mentioned in my last post, the phlebotomist at the clinic I spent time at was a memorable character. To me, she was a hidden story tucked away in a room between the kitchen and the area where patients were seen--a quiet yet bubbly woman who waddled in and out to get her blood draws. She would spend her free moments burying herself in a novel or knitting a pillowcases as wedding gifts for friends. Whenever I came by, I would trade pictures of my nephews and niece for her children. She always had stories to tell, beginning them as if they were a continuation of a previous conversation. What always struck me was how surprisingly detailed her succinct stories always seemed. Perhaps it was my vivid imagination that gave pictures to her words--images not drawn from prior experiences but perhaps conjured from a separate life that had merged with a collective conscience.
One story that struck me in particular was one that she shared about her mother when she passed away. She and her sister had decided to live with her mom during those last weeks trying all the while to hold themselves together emotionally. Alcohol was as as abundant as the grief. Mom used to bake pastries and pies all the time for the family, it became a family tradition of sorts. So during those last days, the two daughters baked pies for mom and when alone drank in the melancholy of the moment.
When I hear stories like this, my somber soul insists that somewhere therein lies a serenity that supersedes sadness. I can't quite grasp how this is logically possible, but if sacrifice can surrender to salvation, then something about this must be true.
One story that struck me in particular was one that she shared about her mother when she passed away. She and her sister had decided to live with her mom during those last weeks trying all the while to hold themselves together emotionally. Alcohol was as as abundant as the grief. Mom used to bake pastries and pies all the time for the family, it became a family tradition of sorts. So during those last days, the two daughters baked pies for mom and when alone drank in the melancholy of the moment.
When I hear stories like this, my somber soul insists that somewhere therein lies a serenity that supersedes sadness. I can't quite grasp how this is logically possible, but if sacrifice can surrender to salvation, then something about this must be true.
Monday, June 21, 2010
Perception of Competency
During my M1 year, I shadowed a local rheumatologist in the area. She was pretty good at explaining concepts, most of which I wouldn't learn until my second year. I remember talking to her secretary and how she said that this doctor could have done anything she wanted: surgery, other medicine specialties...she was that good. Based on what I saw and heard from my personal conversations with her, I could believe it.
This past year I was able to spend some time in clinic with one of the FPs here in town. He worked at the federal clinic, and though I spent most of my time with my preceptor, I also had the chance to talk to the staff around the office. During my first week in clinic, the phlebotomist (who actually let me stick her because I needed practice drawing blood) remarked that "nothing seemed to faze him." Throughout my three weeks in clinic, however, I couldn't shake the feeling that there were many times where he wasn't sure what to do with certain patients or when I had questions, he didn't have an answer. To be fair, perhaps some of these questions were more geared towards specialists (I mean this is why they have extra training, right?) or the patient he had was indeed a difficult case. I could think of a plethora of variables to consider (town vs. gown, indigenous population, etc.) but the bottom line is that I began to realize that just like any other profession, there exists a wide range of competency when it comes to medicine.
I think this fact disturbed more because, to me, this seemed to insinuate that there are doctors out there who might be better off not practicing. I think about my own classmates and I see a wide range of ambition, competence, and motivation. I look at myself these past years and wonder where along this spectrum I will fall. I sometimes think that if people knew where doctors came from, we wouldn't be nearly as trusting of the medical profession as we are.
The second thought about all of this was the different levels at which people view their doctors. The FP had plenty of patients that had been with him for a long time and loved the guy. Certainly, this not only suggested that he was helping people medically, but that they saw something either about his personality or professional demeanor that led them to believe that he was doing a satisfactory job. The phlebotomist felt like the physician was always on top of things or at least in control. I, on the other hand, saw things differently.
This past year I was able to spend some time in clinic with one of the FPs here in town. He worked at the federal clinic, and though I spent most of my time with my preceptor, I also had the chance to talk to the staff around the office. During my first week in clinic, the phlebotomist (who actually let me stick her because I needed practice drawing blood) remarked that "nothing seemed to faze him." Throughout my three weeks in clinic, however, I couldn't shake the feeling that there were many times where he wasn't sure what to do with certain patients or when I had questions, he didn't have an answer. To be fair, perhaps some of these questions were more geared towards specialists (I mean this is why they have extra training, right?) or the patient he had was indeed a difficult case. I could think of a plethora of variables to consider (town vs. gown, indigenous population, etc.) but the bottom line is that I began to realize that just like any other profession, there exists a wide range of competency when it comes to medicine.
I think this fact disturbed more because, to me, this seemed to insinuate that there are doctors out there who might be better off not practicing. I think about my own classmates and I see a wide range of ambition, competence, and motivation. I look at myself these past years and wonder where along this spectrum I will fall. I sometimes think that if people knew where doctors came from, we wouldn't be nearly as trusting of the medical profession as we are.
The second thought about all of this was the different levels at which people view their doctors. The FP had plenty of patients that had been with him for a long time and loved the guy. Certainly, this not only suggested that he was helping people medically, but that they saw something either about his personality or professional demeanor that led them to believe that he was doing a satisfactory job. The phlebotomist felt like the physician was always on top of things or at least in control. I, on the other hand, saw things differently.
Monday, June 14, 2010
the problem with blogging
I remember the first time I started this whole online "journal" thing it was like I found the golden ticket to meaningful mind dumping. Unfortunately, I soon realized that like most forms of electronic correspondence, this can easily translate to babble or really. bad. writing.
In addition to general negligence, I think part of my reluctance to write here is the ever present anxiety that comes with being vulnerable to an unknown audience. Context is so crucial when writing about anything meaningful that it can be the difference between generating incendiary remarks and constructive dialogue. I had a wake-up call a couple summers ago when one of my former co-workers said that my summer job boss came across one of my blog entries about my work experience. Of course, it was pretty much a harmless, feel-good post at the time but it has made me much more wary of the type of things that I talk about.
Still, in weighing the pros and cons of spilling out details of my life on the internets, I have decided that I would like to make a more concerted effort in keeping this thing going. This doesn't necessarily mean I'll be posting about that girl that I'm currently dating (because if I did, it would be, among other things, a total fabrication at this point) or like a twitter account.
Another reason for starting anew is that I will most certainly always find myself behind when it comes to corresponding to people individually (email, phone calls, etc). For those of you to who are waiting (or have given up on reaching me), my lack of responses have been due in part to a paucity of words these last few months. I find that especially this past year, written words are hard to come by. I won't blame school on this one but there is something about a style of learning that embraces study books and bullet point memorization that has squashed my expressiveness. Even when I journal on occasion, mind dumping comes at a much reduced flow rate and with much higher resistance--a "literary constipation" if you will.
So where to begin? I have finished my second year of medical school and am preparing for national examinations on the 24th. I won't bore you with all the details, but I have lost count of how many times I have asked myself if medicine is really for me. School starts almost immediately after boards and as of now, I am giving myself another year before taking any drastic action.
I have occasionally found myself at church on Sunday mornings, but usually sneaking out pretty soon after. It's been a unique experience for me in terms of the interactions I've had with the people there. The church is small enough that everyone is aware of me, but I think three of them actually have spoken to me or know my name. I recall the weekend of Palm Sunday where they were handing out palms during the last song of the service and one of the ushers got to my row with the palms (I was the only one in that row), stared at me somewhat awkwardly, and then moved on to the next row. The couple in front me of me actually got a palm for me, but looking back, I think this epitomized the type of detached relationship I've had with this congregation. Considering that the church is so small, I'm sure I am known as "that Asian guy that sporadically shows up."
In addition to general negligence, I think part of my reluctance to write here is the ever present anxiety that comes with being vulnerable to an unknown audience. Context is so crucial when writing about anything meaningful that it can be the difference between generating incendiary remarks and constructive dialogue. I had a wake-up call a couple summers ago when one of my former co-workers said that my summer job boss came across one of my blog entries about my work experience. Of course, it was pretty much a harmless, feel-good post at the time but it has made me much more wary of the type of things that I talk about.
Still, in weighing the pros and cons of spilling out details of my life on the internets, I have decided that I would like to make a more concerted effort in keeping this thing going. This doesn't necessarily mean I'll be posting about that girl that I'm currently dating (because if I did, it would be, among other things, a total fabrication at this point) or like a twitter account.
Another reason for starting anew is that I will most certainly always find myself behind when it comes to corresponding to people individually (email, phone calls, etc). For those of you to who are waiting (or have given up on reaching me), my lack of responses have been due in part to a paucity of words these last few months. I find that especially this past year, written words are hard to come by. I won't blame school on this one but there is something about a style of learning that embraces study books and bullet point memorization that has squashed my expressiveness. Even when I journal on occasion, mind dumping comes at a much reduced flow rate and with much higher resistance--a "literary constipation" if you will.
So where to begin? I have finished my second year of medical school and am preparing for national examinations on the 24th. I won't bore you with all the details, but I have lost count of how many times I have asked myself if medicine is really for me. School starts almost immediately after boards and as of now, I am giving myself another year before taking any drastic action.
I have occasionally found myself at church on Sunday mornings, but usually sneaking out pretty soon after. It's been a unique experience for me in terms of the interactions I've had with the people there. The church is small enough that everyone is aware of me, but I think three of them actually have spoken to me or know my name. I recall the weekend of Palm Sunday where they were handing out palms during the last song of the service and one of the ushers got to my row with the palms (I was the only one in that row), stared at me somewhat awkwardly, and then moved on to the next row. The couple in front me of me actually got a palm for me, but looking back, I think this epitomized the type of detached relationship I've had with this congregation. Considering that the church is so small, I'm sure I am known as "that Asian guy that sporadically shows up."
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
hello, there, still in Peoria...quite so.
I've been admittedly poor about updating this thing and I'm not sure who still reads this. This will probably be the easiest medium to write to the largest number of people, and since I've come to realize that my one email to one person ratio is becoming increasingly impossible, I'll have to settle for this. Hey, at least I haven't settled for constant one liners on Facebook.
Concerning this whole keeping in touch thing, I've realized that the combination of my introversion with the excuse called school has provided a ripe environment for scarce updates. I'll do what I can in the next few months leading up to boards (another wonderful excuse) and see how it goes.
I just had my History OSCE this morning which is an examination of our history taking skills. Aside from running out of time at one of the stations (I didn't get a chance to take the woman's temperature), I was able to get through each patient with varying degrees of accuracy. I realized sometime in the last few days that it will be difficult for me to really polish any sort of bedside manner until I've become comfortable enough with the basic skills involved in history/physical exams. I find that I either spend too much time trying to be friendly that I overlook certain details or that I become too business like to really crack a smile of some sort. And, I'm okay with that for now, because, I need to get good good at figuring out what's going on with the patient before trying to show them what an awesome person I am.
Second year has been admittedly difficult in terms of learning large amounts of material. Part of that is discipline, and part of it is trying to figure what's really important. I've been fortunate to have some friends here without whose help I could be really struggling--even more than I am now. I these last few years have taught me anything, it's that I've become more comfortable finding help.
I'm currently waiting to find out where I'll be doing 3rd year. I signed up to do my rotations in a rural community somewhere in Illinois. The pros are that I would have a specific preceptor who i work with (Family Med) on a day in day out basis, and that I would get a lot more hands on learning which I am finding is much more effective for me. I'm even finding that my most effective learning this year has come from discussing topics with friends and that my efficiency from reading has quite literally gone down the tubes (scary).
At the same time, I am also wary of moving to an even smaller town especially since my time in Peoria has been a mix of both lonely at times and busy. Of course if I got to know the people there and found a niche, it could be great. Many possibilities. I'm supposed to hear back about whether there will be enough spots to do this next year. Either way, I've come to a certain degree of peace about the whole situation, even if I can't completely understand it.
I'm thinking primary care, but am also interested in medicine. There is a part of me that thinks that I would need to work even harder if I were to go into primary care precisely because it is the gateway from which all referrals are made. Specialists (at least in medicine) seem to have a more focused spectrum of topics to deal with. This kind of makes things exciting, but given my ability to grasp material this year, it's also intimidating. As for surgery, I'll just wait till next year.
It goes without saying but I miss the familiar faces whether it's family or old friends. I know that it becomes harder to really get to know people as one gets older. I am not in any hurry to date anyone but I acknowledge the perks of having a lifelong companion. I realize that there's still so much to learn when it comes people and that I have a tendency to want to fit people into stereotypes not simply because it simplify things, but because somehow it becomes a sort of stabilizing pillar in my attempt to make sense of the world around me. With my parents in California and one of my sisters soon to be moving to Hong Kong for a couple years, I have been increasingly aware of my solitude (even if it is only a perceived one) and no doubt that this has contributed to this loneliness.
As for my faith in God, that continues to be a sort of mystery. I wish things could be much simpler in this regard. If it is not possible to straddle the fence, then i do not know where I am. I am well aware of my own limitations, as well as other peoples limitation, and I know that I can never fully depend either on own strength nor on the infallibility of otehrs. If God is that stabilizing force (and much more I presume), then I can only trust that he will find me in all of this.
Concerning this whole keeping in touch thing, I've realized that the combination of my introversion with the excuse called school has provided a ripe environment for scarce updates. I'll do what I can in the next few months leading up to boards (another wonderful excuse) and see how it goes.
I just had my History OSCE this morning which is an examination of our history taking skills. Aside from running out of time at one of the stations (I didn't get a chance to take the woman's temperature), I was able to get through each patient with varying degrees of accuracy. I realized sometime in the last few days that it will be difficult for me to really polish any sort of bedside manner until I've become comfortable enough with the basic skills involved in history/physical exams. I find that I either spend too much time trying to be friendly that I overlook certain details or that I become too business like to really crack a smile of some sort. And, I'm okay with that for now, because, I need to get good good at figuring out what's going on with the patient before trying to show them what an awesome person I am.
Second year has been admittedly difficult in terms of learning large amounts of material. Part of that is discipline, and part of it is trying to figure what's really important. I've been fortunate to have some friends here without whose help I could be really struggling--even more than I am now. I these last few years have taught me anything, it's that I've become more comfortable finding help.
I'm currently waiting to find out where I'll be doing 3rd year. I signed up to do my rotations in a rural community somewhere in Illinois. The pros are that I would have a specific preceptor who i work with (Family Med) on a day in day out basis, and that I would get a lot more hands on learning which I am finding is much more effective for me. I'm even finding that my most effective learning this year has come from discussing topics with friends and that my efficiency from reading has quite literally gone down the tubes (scary).
At the same time, I am also wary of moving to an even smaller town especially since my time in Peoria has been a mix of both lonely at times and busy. Of course if I got to know the people there and found a niche, it could be great. Many possibilities. I'm supposed to hear back about whether there will be enough spots to do this next year. Either way, I've come to a certain degree of peace about the whole situation, even if I can't completely understand it.
I'm thinking primary care, but am also interested in medicine. There is a part of me that thinks that I would need to work even harder if I were to go into primary care precisely because it is the gateway from which all referrals are made. Specialists (at least in medicine) seem to have a more focused spectrum of topics to deal with. This kind of makes things exciting, but given my ability to grasp material this year, it's also intimidating. As for surgery, I'll just wait till next year.
It goes without saying but I miss the familiar faces whether it's family or old friends. I know that it becomes harder to really get to know people as one gets older. I am not in any hurry to date anyone but I acknowledge the perks of having a lifelong companion. I realize that there's still so much to learn when it comes people and that I have a tendency to want to fit people into stereotypes not simply because it simplify things, but because somehow it becomes a sort of stabilizing pillar in my attempt to make sense of the world around me. With my parents in California and one of my sisters soon to be moving to Hong Kong for a couple years, I have been increasingly aware of my solitude (even if it is only a perceived one) and no doubt that this has contributed to this loneliness.
As for my faith in God, that continues to be a sort of mystery. I wish things could be much simpler in this regard. If it is not possible to straddle the fence, then i do not know where I am. I am well aware of my own limitations, as well as other peoples limitation, and I know that I can never fully depend either on own strength nor on the infallibility of otehrs. If God is that stabilizing force (and much more I presume), then I can only trust that he will find me in all of this.
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Peoria Two Months In
It is said that it's not good, no matter how pleasant it was, to dwell on the past at the expense of moving on in the present.
Agreed.
However, I find that I will forever be viewing the present with relation to the past, and that I will no doubt try to recreate (but not necessarily duplicate) the pleasant experiences that made just a few years ago, a time to remember for the rest of my life.
A noun, as School House Rock tells us, is a person, place, or thing. Thing is too generic, though, so I will stick to describing the first two.
People:
I realize that the older we get, the more we become the person that we were in our younger years. The insecurities, the sensitivities, the quirks, and the characteristics that define us in other's eyes only become accentuated in social circles. People form an opinion of you and it becomes difficult to change unless you develop significant friendships that give others an in depth understanding of who you are. I have found this to be true of the teachers, classmates, and pretty much everyone else that I have met here.
I also think about the type of people I would like to be around as a physician. The school offers a Rural Preceptor Physician track in our third year for all students (including those not necessarily going into rural). The pros: more individualized attention, more self-driven learning. The cons: small town, primary care emphasis (assuming you're not inclined toward either of those things), 8 monts away from classmates. I don't know if I want to practice rural medicine, but a few months removed from Dixon, this option certainly appeals to me more than it has in the past.
I think about Christians that I have met here. The preceptor I had during my recent primary care immersion week grew up in Africa, went to Wheaton College, did med school here in Peoria, and decided to practice urban medicine here. His children are/were homeschooled and they attend a non-denominational church here in Peoria. He strikes me as caring, a little soft spoken, and, in certain social settings, a little awkward. (I suppose this description could easily be a projection of my self-image but that's an entirely different issue). I went sailing with him and a couple friends last weekend, and the friend that owned the boat gave us all writings that amounted to a testimony and stories of faith. I remember reading them later and thinking to myself, "this is totally something that I could see my mom doing...in Chinese of course."
Places:
I could begin with school. I spend lots of time there everyday. Sometimes I'm awake and sometimes I'm sleeping. Often, I'm somewhere in between. I've been to my friend Jin's parents' restaurant a couple times...it strikes me as the type of place I would go often even if there were other restaurants that had better food simply because familiar faces can make the simplest foods taste better. The pastor at the church I have been attending was kind enough to make a key for me so that I could get access to the church piano whenever I wanted. This has brought back memories of college when 24 hr. access to the music building made life that much sweeter. Speaking of piano, I hope to meet up with one of the music professors at the local university here who says that he may be willing to take me on. My time in medical school has showed me that I am unable to give up the piano...as if there were still so much that I need to learn. .
Agreed.
However, I find that I will forever be viewing the present with relation to the past, and that I will no doubt try to recreate (but not necessarily duplicate) the pleasant experiences that made just a few years ago, a time to remember for the rest of my life.
A noun, as School House Rock tells us, is a person, place, or thing. Thing is too generic, though, so I will stick to describing the first two.
People:
I realize that the older we get, the more we become the person that we were in our younger years. The insecurities, the sensitivities, the quirks, and the characteristics that define us in other's eyes only become accentuated in social circles. People form an opinion of you and it becomes difficult to change unless you develop significant friendships that give others an in depth understanding of who you are. I have found this to be true of the teachers, classmates, and pretty much everyone else that I have met here.
I also think about the type of people I would like to be around as a physician. The school offers a Rural Preceptor Physician track in our third year for all students (including those not necessarily going into rural). The pros: more individualized attention, more self-driven learning. The cons: small town, primary care emphasis (assuming you're not inclined toward either of those things), 8 monts away from classmates. I don't know if I want to practice rural medicine, but a few months removed from Dixon, this option certainly appeals to me more than it has in the past.
I think about Christians that I have met here. The preceptor I had during my recent primary care immersion week grew up in Africa, went to Wheaton College, did med school here in Peoria, and decided to practice urban medicine here. His children are/were homeschooled and they attend a non-denominational church here in Peoria. He strikes me as caring, a little soft spoken, and, in certain social settings, a little awkward. (I suppose this description could easily be a projection of my self-image but that's an entirely different issue). I went sailing with him and a couple friends last weekend, and the friend that owned the boat gave us all writings that amounted to a testimony and stories of faith. I remember reading them later and thinking to myself, "this is totally something that I could see my mom doing...in Chinese of course."
Places:
I could begin with school. I spend lots of time there everyday. Sometimes I'm awake and sometimes I'm sleeping. Often, I'm somewhere in between. I've been to my friend Jin's parents' restaurant a couple times...it strikes me as the type of place I would go often even if there were other restaurants that had better food simply because familiar faces can make the simplest foods taste better. The pastor at the church I have been attending was kind enough to make a key for me so that I could get access to the church piano whenever I wanted. This has brought back memories of college when 24 hr. access to the music building made life that much sweeter. Speaking of piano, I hope to meet up with one of the music professors at the local university here who says that he may be willing to take me on. My time in medical school has showed me that I am unable to give up the piano...as if there were still so much that I need to learn. .
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